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For all you out there that don't think it's possible to be friends after a breakup, it is possible! I'm doing it right now. Just stay confident and it will happen. after our breakup, i was the last to realize we are better as friends. but thankfully i have because im happy to have a friend like him. we've helped each other out throughout the days and its been good.  It has been a little over a month since our break up. Everyday is hard but everyday is getting easier. I was best friends with my ex before our relationship, and we decided we NEEDED to be best friends after our relationship. The reason we needed to be best friends is because we have invested so much in each other to just end it now. he is my confidant, my go-to for any problems I have. It wasn't until after we broke up that I realized I love him. He s handsome enough, smart, funny, caring, and so much more. I can't ask for a better person to be best friends with than him.  So far things are great fr...

Why do people take so long to reply text messages? Im guessing 90% of the time they aren't texting you back because they just don't care.  No offense, but I don't think this is completely accurate. Sometimes people just don't pay attention to their phones, or social networking is not a priority. There are alot of other factor here. Also... It could be that they prioritise what they do, and other stuff they are dealing with has higher priority. If so, try to understand what else they deal. Or maybe, they may just pick the texts important to them, and ignore the rest. It might also be that they are not the best person to communicate with for your question and sometimes people just have other things to worry about.

I missed this person very much, and every time I had a thought of something cool to text them, or something to talk to them about it made me sad. 😖 mom told me that "....there are other people around." (But honestly no one can compare to them) Only 3 things i'll always miss about them Sharing all the details about our love life. The screenshots of cheesy messages from random guys, the latest crush, the guy we thought might finally be the one (gue selalu bilang: ini jodoh gue nih) Being involved in each other’s families. I became close with their family. they were like a second home to me. I still think about them from time to time and wonder how they are. Inside jokes no one else will EVER be able to understand. Me try and make those jokes and they might laugh along. We basically had a secret language combined of inside jokes and random references (guru ngaji jaman SD, bahkan tmn sd yg cuma kenal sebulan bisa jd bahan). You have given me the best days of my life. Thanks ...

Mam always told me that "You are my favorite daughter.” That’s funny, mam, because I am your ONLY daughter 😂. But yaaa its ok lha. I hv so much fun with my Mom. She’s just goofy and silly and some kind of wonderful. And she makes me laugh all the time. She doesn’t even realize it. Maybe now she will.. Ceritanya doi lagi Bm bubur. So gue inisiatif nawarin bubur barito. Pas liat menu.. Ada menu "bubur ayam tanpa ayam" respon nyokap cuma "lah. Kepriben. Bubur ayam gapake ayam. Terus pake apa!" Ntah knapa. Thats makes me laugh till now.  ********************************************** "Kamu anak perempuan apa laki sih"  This is something my Mom tends to say a lot, and it applies to many situations: ketika gue abis makan dan piring ditinggal aja; ketika gue abis mandi lupa naro baju kotor; dan ketika gue dirumah tp ga mandi berhari2. It kills me every time she says it. But mam, you re my best friend, best partner, you taught me everything but i dont know h...

Seseorang yg pernah pergi, walaupun ia kembali namun tidak akan pernah sama lagi.  What does that mean??? To me, this quote means Love isn’t owned and cannot be taken. It can only be given.. If you love someone, you have to give them the freedom to choose for itself.  Cinta, sayang, bukan selalu tentang pacar atau kekasih.  Terkadang yg lo rinduin hadir untuk lo bukan selalu pacar, melainkan bisa sahabat. Sahabat yg pastinya "click" sama diri lo.  I miss my old friend. We meet once or twice in a week and I do give him a lot of time. But now he is in a relationship, or maybe "in the zone" then we hang out less and that's okay. Ya thats okay 👌 But i hink that is all about priorities, do you always keep ur friends as second priority?  I guess she expects more time from you. You have to explain to her that just because you hang out with your friends doesnt mean she's not important. And seriously, to be blunt, ask her to grow up and get a life!! This is not a h...